Suggestions for use                                                                        


1. New Relationship: 

His & Her packs. Use individually or together.

Establishing an early practice of pulling cards together will get you both in the habit of taking responsibility for your feelings, develop your ability to see the mirror clearly, and make it easier to use if challenges escalate.


Individual use.  If you're reading this, then it starts with you... Pick your deck

Pull a card whenever experiencing any negative feelings towards your partner, and then do it again.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror. 

Develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within.

Combine with other tools and use as often as necessary.  All day long if necessary.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.  


2. Thriving Relationship:

His & Her packs.  Use whenever challenged individually or together.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror, and you both develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within if times get challenging.


Individual use.  If you're reading this, then it starts with you... Pick your deck

Pull a card whenever experiencing any negative feelings towards your partner, and then do it again.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror. 

Develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within.

Combine with other tools and use as often as necessary.  All day long if necessary.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.  


3. Challenged Relationship:

His & Her packs.  Use whenever challenged individually or together.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror, and you both develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, as well as the habit of going within if times get challenging.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.  


Individual use.  If you're reading this, then it starts with you... Pick your deck

Pull a card whenever experiencing any negative feelings towards your partner, and then do it again.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror. 

Develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within.

Combine with other tools and use as often as necessary.  All day long if necessary.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.  


4. Transitioning Relationship:

His & Her packs.  Use whenever challenged individually or together.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror, and you both develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, as well as the habit of going within if times get challenging.  It's never too late to establish the habit.


Individual use.  If you're reading this, then it starts with you... Pick your deck

Pull a card whenever experiencing any negative feelings towards your partner, and then do it again.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror. 

Develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within.

Combine with other tools and use as often as necessary.  All day long if necessary.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.  


5. Ending Relationship:

His & Her packs.  Use when challenged individually or together.

Constant reminders that the relationship is a mirror keeps you on track with your own process. Pull a card as often as necessary.

If you haven't already done so, begin now to develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings.



Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror, and you both develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, as well as the habit of going within if times get challenging.  It's never too late to establish the habit.


Individual use.  If you're reading this, then it starts with you... Pick your deck

Pull a card whenever experiencing any negative feelings towards your partner, and then do it again.

Pulling a card on a regular basis, serves as a constant reminder that the relationship is a mirror. 

Develop your ability to take responsibility for your feelings, and the habit of going within.

Combine with other tools and use as often as necessary.  All day long if necessary.

Contemplate what comes up and ask your inner self for guidance.